ImaginativeBoy

ilikekatie:

nguava:

mvirina:

mariannmaeee:

spittinvividly:

Women are the most confusing race in the entire world, if you try to read a females personality It’ll be like reading a book backwards drunk, while getting your face smashed in with a piece of coal. For me I’ll try to understand why, why women get mad at the smallest things like its the biggest thing, why they tell you; “I need space” then they get mad at you when you don’t talk to her or even when you argue with them they mention something very vague from the past to try and get points across. There confusing and raw, but dam how can I live without the queens though. How can I live without the make up sessions, the movies night, the talks on the phone, the “ride or die” feeling you have with your queen, or even those intimate moments that make you go “dam I’m feeling this chick”. Honestly you women are lucky as we are lucky to have you too, cause we deal with your shit and we try to understand your complex personality.

- Spittinvividly

I have to agree.

Who should be avoided?

shariemiradora:

I’ve had my fair share of experiences with certain people claiming that they fit the description of being a “real friend”. However, not only was their declaration of being one totally opposite to what they have become (..or maybe not, since I’m no longer in contact with them), I still forgave and came to terms with the problems they caused.

First and foremost, I am not trying to proclaim that I’m perfect in maintaining a friendship. I also caused my own mistakes and even now, I have not yet apologized for them. However, the reason why I’m sharing this is to express my own views on what an authentic friendship is supposed to be. This is not only for the people out there, but also for myself - to reflect back in time to identify the wrongs and tribulations in maintaining a friendship.

THE THREE TYPES OF FRIENDS I ENCOUNTERED: 

1) I came across people who tried to always see the bad within the good. They talked when someone else is happy. They looked for the imperfections when someone is pretty. They looked for bad scores when someone is smart. The bullshit ‘gossips’ were there lives. They didn’t see anything positive, and if they did, it was all about themselves.

2) I came across people who were clingy. They tried to control my life; who I should hang out with, what I should do in my spare time, what I should eat during lunch. As much as I hated them for not accepting who I really am, I was very grateful to have met them. I realized that no one should ever persuade someone into something they don’t believe in, and no one should ever stop someone to do what makes them happy. 

3) I came across people who could never be trusted. Secrets were slipped in a matter of seconds! The only secrets they kept is if it involved them. People eventually ended up coming up to me and asking if what they’ve heard from _____ is true. I then realized that one should only trust a handful of people and trust should really be gained.

Now that I’m no longer in touch with these people, I’m very honored that they have at least made an impact in my life. I’ve learned how to properly choose the right people who I should keep and who I should leave out in my life. I hope this will inspire some of you, to find someone who is worthy enough to give something special, and that is.. friendship.

/friendshipblog

End Of Another Year

End of 2009, End of another chapter.

I have to be honest here, 2009 wasn’t a good year for me. Its sad enough for me to stay home at new years eve and being able to blog right now. Plus on top of that I’m opening and closing at J2 Metro Town on New Years Day. How lame is that?! But than again I get double pay for working so it kinda balances out things for me.

I’ve been through a lot of emotional problems for 2009. Relationships is at the top for that. A lot of complications,confusions,lies, dis-honesty and any of those crap reasons somewhere down the list. I just couldn’t comprehend any of those this year. Most of the time  I feel clueless, useless, or maybe even careless.

I wasn’t able to reach my set goals that I’ve had for 2009. I wasn’t able to achieve a certain level of work and effort for my Art Portfolio. Most of the time I felt like a dead weight whenever i picked up a pencil and paper. When I start photo shop or Illustrator hoping that I would be able to do some decent work, I turn it off right after the start up is complete. Some progress I’ve made… haha yeah right.

I fail to understand some of my particular friend’s feelings whenever they’ve got them self’s in a heated problem. I have no right.

I’m sorry, I’ve  failed you.

Awaiting for another chapter to be revealed. Hoping that it would have more happy paragraphs, pictures, events, characters and setting.